Take as much time as you need to complete this. Remember not to list any physical attributes, as they are not important. When you have your list, read them to the Goddess, saying: 
 

"My ideal partner is___(list good traits)_____,
My ideal partner doesn't ____(list bad traits)____.
Please send to me the man/woman who best suits me"

If the spell doesn't work, look at your list again, and work out if you left something out, or listed something that you don't feel as strongly about any more. 

Also work through any fears, worries or anxiety you might have about relationships or issues from past relationships which could hinder your spell working. With your list of things you don't want, have a think about why you don't want those things, and work through any issues you have.

After you have completed the spell it is important to go places where you might meet people, as potential mates don't just drop from the sky!